Homeowner, 28, draws national attention in legal battle with 55+ community

A legal battle between a Jacksonville homeowners association and a 28-year-old woman who inherited her late father’s home is drawing national attention and exposing deep divisions within her 55+ community.

Bethany Michel has spent nearly three years fighting to remain in the Arbor Mill community in Oakleaf after inheriting the home following her father’s death in 2023. The HOA argues she no longer meets the community’s age restrictions, while Michel says she is honoring her father’s final wish.

“We fought to the very end, and the fight is not finished just because my dad is gone,” Michel said. “I still have the fight left in me.”

The dispute has become a flashpoint for residents after the HOA proposed a $155,000 special assessment that would require about 155 homeowners to contribute about $1,000 each to help cover legal fees associated with the lawsuit.

According to the community’s governing documents, every occupied home must include at least one resident who is 55 or older. The declaration also prohibits anyone under 19 from living in the community and allows the HOA board to grant hardship exceptions at its discretion if the community remains compliant with federal fair housing requirements.

Homeowners are required to notify the association of changes in occupancy after events such as a death or inheritance.

Resident Patty Acres said the issue isn’t personal.

“It’s really not about this young lady,” Acres said. “It’s about enforcing the age requirements across the board.”

Acres, who is under 55 herself, is permitted to live in the community because she resides with her mother, who meets the age requirement.

She said she understands that if her mother were to die, she would no longer be eligible to live there.

“If something was to happen to my mom and she was to pass away, I would fully be under the understanding that I would not live here,” Acres said.

Acres acknowledged homeowners aren’t happy about the proposed assessment but said enforcing the rules is important.

“No one’s excited about the $1,000,” she said.

She believes making an exception for Michel could undermine the HOA’s ability to enforce other community rules.

“The rules are the rules,” Acres said. “If we don’t enforce the rules for one, we can’t enforce rules for all.”

A community divided

The case has sparked widespread attention online, with Michel’s story spreading across social media and prompting discussion well beyond Northeast Florida.

Michel said the national attention has been overwhelming, but she hopes it leads to broader conversations about families who inherit homes in age-restricted communities.

“I am not equipped to deal with this,” she said. “But being that I’ve been put in a position to potentially become an advocate for caregivers … maybe even change the laws … it’s bittersweet, but it’s for a good reason.”

She said she hopes the case brings clarity for homeowners and caregivers navigating similar situations.

Acres agrees the lawsuit has had an effect on the neighborhood.

“This is a situation where the neighborhood is absolutely divided,” she said. “And it’s not fun.”

Although she sympathizes with Michel’s circumstances, Acres said she believes the community’s governing documents should be enforced.

“Personally, I think she should move. I think her dad did her the great honor of leaving the house to her,” Acres said. “But this is an over-55 community where they’ve chosen to be over 55. I think it’s really unfair that one homeowner who doesn’t want to follow the rules is saying all of you have to pay to sue me to get me out.”

Attorney disputes HOA’s case

Michel’s attorney disputes the HOA’s legal position.

In an email shared with News4Jax, he said the association has threatened legal action for years and argued the case is far from clear-cut.

“Any attorney worth their salt will tell you that if the HOA was clearly in the right, it would not cost over $150,000 in attorney’s fees to get you removed from the property,” the attorney wrote. “That’s what you have to pay an attorney to represent you on a losing case.”

The Arbor Mill HOA has previously declined to comment on the litigation.

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